The most pertinent proverb that
stands out to me in this chapter is in verse 19: “When there are many words,
transgression is unavoidable, but he who restrains his lips is wise.” Oh, the many times I wish I could have taken
back something I just said! I often don’t
know how something is going to affect the listener until the words have left my
mouth and I see their reaction. It is never my intention to be offensive, but
that is sometimes the result of my many words. And I do try to restrain my lips. “Next time I
will be quiet and just listen,” I tell myself, but the words just keep spilling
out of my mouth! Years ago, I learned something that was quite encouraging. I
learned that people are either internal processors or external processors. I am an external processor. Now this is not the same as being an introvert
or extrovert, but it is how we process our thoughts and emotions. I just found a blog that discusses this very
issue and has some wonderfully helpful tips for people like me… but also for
internal processors. The link is below for those who care to check it out. 😊 Dear Father, please continue to create in me a pure and loving
and kind heart so that the words that spill out of my mouth are always kind and
loving. And, if I offend, please help me become aware so that I might apologize.
And may I extend grace if anyone says something that seems offensive to me. Let
us love one another and be kind and grow in grace so that we reflect You in everything
we say and do.
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